mscichlid
Founder
Let me 'splain to you from the 2nd wife's point of view...it wasn't much fun when people said to me, "Oh, hi, you must be Joan." And I would have to say, "No, I'm Ruth. Joan was his FIRST wife." Thankfully, he had it tattooed over with something without ANY names! I'm sure that 30 years prior, he was SURE that SHE was the one! But, if you're both going to do it, then you'll both get grief from spouse #2!!! QUOTE]
In that case, consider only women with the same name.