Well things have taken a turn for the worst. The pair started lip locking a few days ago and it was very loving, they've stopped guarding the fry and the female was cleaning a rock last night. I netted about 20-25 fry and put them in a 20g but they are sooooo small I have a hard time finding them. I'm worried the male is going to kill her, I've added a ton of junk to the tank to give her places to run but she's pretty stressed. Tonight I think I'll pull the male from the tank until I can get a divider for it. The male is going through a massive growth spurt and is twice her size now. So, maybe a divder with a love door.