2nd update: my other pair in there has been acting weird lately, so I looked in the back of the tank where their nest is, and there are free swimming fry! I must be doing something good lol
I keep them around 75F, feed flakes, pellets, frozen food, etc. Before they spawned I was feeding them some live earthworms. I have 6 of them in a 55G with two N. parilus. They really enjoy a planted tank.