Hello!
I just was reading over your difficulties and signed on to throw my two cents in.
I've been keeping Tangs for many years and while I definitely don't know everything I have to come to learn a few weird/unusual things over time about these wonderful little guys...
John
I've got 5 Gold Ocellatus, a few small bristlenose plecos, and 6 White Calvus left.The calvus are juvies and don't seem to pay any mind to the Golds. Occasionally the Golds have to kick the Calvus and plecos from their shell, but that's about it. I knew that later on I would have to rehome the Golds, as the Calvus would get too big to keep them both.
I agree that it is more than the temp. I can't imagine a 5 degree swing killing fish, but that's the only thing I could think of. Normal tank temps fluctuate 2-3 degrees without issue as you have already mentioned above.
As for stocking, I've been told that 10 Ocellatus Gold in a 75 gallon tank was more than enough space given that I could spread out the shells to different parts of the tank. I would love to see your source of information, as you seem to know more about these fish than your average bear. I'm a research junkie when it comes to fish. I don't mind accumulating more knowledge... Anyway, 10 of them seemed to work for a while. The fish that I've lost have been the larger fish. Not sure what correlation that has, but it's worth noting. I had a complete tank die off several months back due to me being an idiot (water conditioner added late, large water change with a lower temperature, stirring up the bottom during said water change after removing a rock wall to clean, etc.), so these were all smaller new fish. I no longer have the Petricola or the Julies.
Honestly, I'm ready to give up on them. I love them both, but I can't keep subjecting them to the stress and killing them. I need to stay in my lane for now until I can dedicate a species specific tank to them and more time to them. I can do weekly water changes easy enough and I feed and watch them multiple times per day. For some reason I've had crappy luck with Tangs. All of my other fish seem to do extremely well. Not sure what the issue is at this point.