Welcome to the forum Patty - bring the shole family to the CCA meting on the 14th - this speaker - Mike Hellwig is fantastic - if you raise your own food you need to get his book "Cultivating Live Foods" - and even if you don't raise your own (you will at some point if you are into breeding) - the book is jam packed with really good information on how and why fish react differently to live foods than to packaged flake foods.
Look forward to meeting you and the whole clan --