I've never used mixing valves on any of my fishroom set-ups, because I prefer to have flexibility to control the temp of the water on an ad hoc basis. Cooler water in the summer and warmer in the winter.
I've sourced water for my water-changing systems either from the tap or a big rubbermaid tub.
You can get as fancy as you want with the way to add water to tanks but I've had the best luck with black drip irrigation tube, black tubing (like airline tubing except black, stiffer and available at hardware stores) and drip irrigation fittings in a closed loop (on the ceiling above the tanks).
Initially I started with a timer (to make it auto on/off), a pressure regulator (to the loop) and emitters with flow regulators (e.g. 1 gph or 2 gph) but found it unnecessarily complicated.
The best set up was to run water (of the desired temp) from the tap to the irrigation line loop, to (one or more) unconstrained (by drip emitter) branch lines to each tank on the system. I only used emitters to really small tanks...and multiple lines to big ones. Turning water off to a tank is as easy as putting the branch line to it into another tank or putting a plug in the end (some of which come with drip irrigation kits).
I found myself wanting to turn the water on to the system when I came home from work or whenever I was around vs. when I had the timer on... so I got rid of the timers. Some days I could do a big, warm (auto) water change and others a small, cool one. The timer and the flow-controlling emitters got in the way of this.
Matt